Woman Is Told She’s “Overreacting And Conservative” After Her Reaction To Lingerie Prank

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We reached out to u/Conscious-Jicama2133 via Reddit, and she kindly agreed to tell us how she’s currently doing. “I’m good now, I guess,” she wrote in a message. “I have spent a bit of time thinking these past couple of days and am mostly mad at myself for letting others, especially my ex, treat me like that.”

She says she and those close to her cut all contact with the ex-boyfriend and his friends. In fact, they even blocked them all. “No one from my side stalks or sees his or Claire’s social media,” the Redditor adds.

This was prompted by a less-than-classy post the ex made on Instagram . u/Conscious-Jicama2133 tells us he wrote, “Girls will come and go, but friendship is for life.” These words cleared all her doubts. “Needless to say, it looks like I finally got the ick,” she told us.

The Redditor says that the support and comments she got from other Redditors really helped. “I realize now that I was kind of being gaslighted ? Hearing from so many strangers [about] how what was happening to me was not normal was eye-opening and certainly needed,” she now believes.

When it comes to sharing advice with people who might be going through something similar, u/Conscious-Jicama2133 isn’t quick to impart any sort of lesson. She did, however, learn the hard way about the importance of setting boundaries. “Please don’t let people trample over your boundaries. If they don’t respect you, then leave.”